Opps! I let the whole week get by me

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Well, not entirely. I went to the Dentist, Doctor, and had dinner with friends, on Wednesday.  

It was a long day but not a bad one. 

We had snow on Wednesday too, Winter seems to be trying to arrive early.

I’m still loving my new phone. Unlike previous iPhones this one has amazing battery life. Seriously I’m getting 2 days on a charge, the best I ever got out of my android was less than a day.

The rest of the week has flown by and I don’t really know what if anything I’ve managed to accomplish.


The government shutdown has fueled a fire that I’m not entirely sure that our politicians will be able to quell. The next elections should be interesting!

I know that I plan not to cast any votes for incumbents.

Like many people I’ve become increasingly disgusted with our government. In particular the pettiness that appears to be coming directly from the White House.

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Closing open air monuments, and National Parks is beyond petty and vindictive, it’s just plain WRONG.

Even more astounding to me was the incident where the Capital police told a man who was volunteering to mow the lawn around the Lincoln memorial that he had to leave. Imprisoning a group of elderly tourists in their hotel near old faithful was shocking. 

This is not who we as Americans are.

We’re supposed to be charitable, kind, good natured, and respectful, especially of places that are, for want of a better word “Sacred” to our nation.

That we have citizens willing to volunteer their time to maintain monuments, or man parks for the benefit of their countrymen says that as a people our core beliefs are still intact.

It also highlights that the ethics, and morals of those in power are suspect.

Another concern is that we apparently have Police officers in New York, Washington DC and National Park Rangers who, when given a choice about basic right and wrong, choose wrong.

These LEO officials were given a choice between following orders and choosing the ethical , moral path. Like some of the Nazi officers in Hitler’s Germany they chose to follow orders and effectively squelched what their conscience must have been screaming for them to do.

How long then until we have citizens appearing in court saying “I was only following orders…” Really? Roughing up old people? Terrorizing tourists? Mistreating veterans… This passes for correct behavior in my country today? 


In funnier news it’s been a big week for the “R” dog.

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In addition to him encountering snow for the first time he’s also started noticing electronics in the house.

He decided that the DVD player needed to be barked at when it stuck out the disc tray one night.

Today, while I was printing something out on the printer the paper sounded like hissing and that caught his attention.

We didn’t get to the level of barking at the printer but he’s decided that the “Evil Printer” must be watched.

He looks at the machine every time he walks by and any little sound it makes is immediately investigated.

His end of week antics were certainly more benign than his antics earlier in the week.

This week he’s demonstrated that he can reach onto the kitchen counter and has no qualms about snagging a complete sandwich from a plate and trotting off with it. He has a grasp of physics and does the math to determine if he can snag the sandwich before you can traverse the distance to interdict.

He also has decided that items on my desk are worthy of his drooling attention. Pens, pencils, and other items have been retrieved, from the retriever throughout the week.

This seems to be our lot in life. The dogs we raise, or even just take in, develop very distinctive personalities. 

People are amazed when I tell the “S” dog to go potty… and he trots out the slider down the stairs and does exactly that. They’re equally amazed that he will come get me if he’s not feeling well or lead me to either the sliding door or the treat cupboard depending on his need or whim.

The “R” dog is developing in the same way. He’s willful, and beginning to understand that a certain amount of that will be tolerated instead of punished(I still suspect there was a lot of punishment where he came from). As the weeks have sped by he’s coming to his own conclusions about what works and what doesn’t.

For example The “R” dog may wish to go into the underbrush, the “S” dog and I would prefer not to.

The “R” dog keeps 90lbs of tension on the retracto leash but doesn’t get his way. While we’re waiting for him to decide that he needs to stay with the pack, the “S” dog and I chat and the “S” dog gets ear scratches and attention.

On one particularly “willful” day “S” and I simply sat on the side of the road enjoying each others company until the “R” dog decided that he’d met an immovable object regardless of the limitless force he applied.

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Truth to tell I think he was just plain tired. After 45 minutes he decided to take what dignity he had left and lead us home. “S” laughed all the way back to the house in the way that retrievers do.

He stayed by my side occasionally looking up at me as we walked, as if to say “He’s really stubborn isn’t he?”

I reminded the “S” dog that he tried the same things, as did Butch and Etta. He nuzzled me at the mention of their names. 

We miss them to be sure.

Before we had the opportunity to get too maudlin the “R” dog came across a rabbit and in his excitement tangled himself up and then tripped, falling squarely on his stubborn pride.

After untangling him, he seems to have concluded that there was just no way he could be anything but embarrassed. 

The “S” dog led us the remainder of the way home. While the “R” dog simply looked at the dirt road we were walking along. He was obviously upset albeit unhurt. The rabbit in the front yard erased the black cloud over his head and this time he didn’t do a spin he just tried to catch the wrascally wabbit.

They’re funny companions. 

I know they only keep me around because of my opposable thumb. After all who’s going to run the can opener?

Wow! This is a First

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In my life I’ve heard rumblings, rumors, and outright calls for the impeachment of a President.

This is the first time in my life that there has ever been open talk of revolution.

In the past 3 weeks I’ve heard on the radio, (NO Not the Über conservative channels) where commentators were speaking clearly and openly about those calling for revolution. The surprising thing was that they weren’t mocking about it.

I clearly remember Richard Nixon’s last days in the White House. There were calls for his impeachment all over the place. I was a teen at the time and didn’t really pay much attention to the specifics. I remember that Nixon’s resignation caught my attention and somehow I knew that the country had fundamentally changed.

The calls for Bill Clintons impeachment were largely political theater and I ignored them.

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I thought at the time, there were lots of other issues that we should be having a discussion about other than who was polishing the Presidents knob. I did like that Clinton kept Yasser Arafat waiting in the rose garden in a hot, humid, August while Clinton got a blow job.

That to me was classic. I didn’t care for Arafat and thought he had no business having any discussion with the President. He was a terrorist, a butcher, and a liar.

We’ve heard calls for President Obamas impeachment off & on for quite a while.

I’ve chalked it up to sour grapes and after the second election just general dis-satisfaction with President Obamas performance.

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This is something that used to be talked about drunk over a bottle of Whiskey.

It was mentioned in hushed tones by conspiracy theorists, and dismissed easily because… well… They’re crazy.

Revolution was a thought exercise in my history classes, mostly to illustrate that revolutions are in general really bad. Without careful thought you can easily replace one despot with another.

Never in my life has Revolution been a topic of general discussion and certainly never on the radio. That lately it’s a matter of common and non-derisive discussion has completely blown my mind.

I’d like to toss some thoughts out just because I think it needs to be said.

Revolution must be the absolute last course of action.

Our founding fathers gave us the rules about starting a revolution, and they gave us the potential to exercise a “Nuclear Option”. Their reasoning is as sound today as it was then. Those guys foresaw the possibility of their brand new republic becoming a tyrannical beast. Thats why our country is so unique. Our system of checks & balances has served and protected us for almost two & a half centuries. The system works.

Before pressing the big red button we should remember and consider our less radical options.

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If we are displeased with our government, then we have a variety of methods to seek redress.

We must use those methods first.

ONLY when and if the government ignores We the Peoples grievances should we contemplate moving to the “Nuclear” option.

Civil war, Revolution, Coup, whatever you call taking up arms against the government, will inevitably result in bloodshed.

As happens with these things, much of the blood that will be shed will be innocent.

Having been raised in the South, and after doing a bit of genealogical research I’m aquatinted with the wounds that Civil war causes.

There are people in my family who still refer to the Civil war as “The war of Northern aggression“.

In my genealogical research I’ve found many relatives who fought on both sides of the conflict.

There is even a set of cousins who appear to have died in the same battle fighting on opposite sides. These were men who played together as children, then ended up dying together on the same blood soaked day. One tragic day among many as men died far from home and their families.

The wounds of the Civil war have been slow to heal. I shudder to think about inflicting new wounds in a revolution against our government.

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The other point i’d like to make is that in the Civil war, and our war for independence against England, we as a people had very clear goals.

In the one case, Independence from England, in the other the dispute between the North and South. (notice I didn’t say jack shit about slavery. There are reasons and I’m not going into it right now.)

To all these people calling for a revolution against the government today. I’d say take a deep breath. Demand recall and impeachment hearings. Use the legal means provided first. 

If those methods fail, and the only recourse is revolution then have a plan!

It’s not enough to say, “I don’t like the government, they didn’t listen to me lets revolt!”

What is your end game?

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Assuming that you succeed with your revolution what then?

Are you going to shoot people you don’t like on the capital steps, without the benefit of a trial? God I hope not! That’s not who we are as a people.

Will you return to the basic Bill of Rights and the Constitution?

What then? How would you go about implementing laws from the existing body of law that are acceptable and not burdensome?

Would you simply toss all the laws out and start with basics from the Ten Commandments?

Will you reboot the government?

Will you flush all the leaders in Washington and have immediate elections?

How will you do this? A revolution will most probably have disrupted significant portions of the infrastructure. Whats the plan to get the word out?

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These are just the first things that pop into my head about revolution.

I’m not a scholar, I’m an average hayseed redneck.

I do know however that without a plan in place, a revolution would likely destroy the very thing the revolution was fought to restore.

We’ve seen elsewhere in the world time and again one group of corrupt leaders replaced with another group of corrupt leaders. Would you wish that on our home?

I wouldn’t. 

Don’t get me wrong. I think the government is too big, it’s not attuned to the needs of the general populace, and in fact may be hostile to the people.

I’m very disappointed in The President, The Congress, Democrats and Republicans. I fear that our country has lost it’s way and that The Constitution has become more a set of guidelines. (A situation that I vehemently disagree with)

I simply hope that revolution isn’t the only way to bring about the changes in government that we so desperately need.

I really hope that all this revolution talk is just talk.

It would break my heart to see us go down that dark and bloody path.

Oh for Pete’s sake! I’m so over these Silly Assed Boycotts!

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I was scanning twitter this morning and ran across this;

@jeromeehudson So, you’re at Chick-fil-a (AGAIN), eh @BruceCarrollSC?? You’re a self-loathing piece of work

I thought “Oh God!” aren’t we past these things yet?

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Mr. Hudson is going on about the Chic-fil-a ruckus, that started when some executive from Chic-Fil-A said he didn’t agree with gay marriage or didn’t like gay people or some such.

As you can tell I was offended so much by the comments of the Chic-fil-a person I totally remember exactly what it was all about. Yeah right! I so didn’t give a shit

Mainly because I don’t care what one person says or that (he or she) is an executive of a company or that they’re making 1000 times more money than me.

This is one of the things that I find so damn offensive about the mainstream GLBT community. My sexuality has never defined my politics, why does the GLBT community allow it to define theirs?

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The GLBT community and others, tend to boycott at the drop of a hat over no damn good reason. In some boycotts the GLBT folks will even devour their own. Such as the gay bar owner who was… Horror of horrors Republican!.

Now we’ve got the Barilla boycott. Really? Lets see a name like Guido Barilla, anybody care to guess what his religion probably is? Can you say most likely traditionally Catholic? Are you really surprised that he’d be opposed to showing gay families? More-over, why isn’t he allowed to speak his mind without haveing to live in fear that some half baked group will get their panties in a twist.

Aren’t there far more important things to worry about?

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Anybody remember the Coors boycott of the ’80s? It was in all the papers, well at least the gay papers. Coors was being mean and oppressive I vaguely recall it was something to do with firing gay workers or some such. So the gay community made the grandiose gesture of not buying Coors beer or serving it in gay bars.

This went on for years… As did Coors Brewing. I doubt seriously that Coors noticed much of a dip in their bottom line.

I honestly don’t know if you can get a Coors beer in a gay bar now. I’m afraid to ask for fear that the patrons of the bar would go feral, turn on me and rip my carcass to bloody shreds.

Just for asking the question…

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Oh hey, look at that. Coors is marketing specifically to gay people. Well it only took 25 years for the gay community to forget about the boycott.

How about the Great Hotel boycott of the early 2000s in San Diego? OMG someone at the hotel said some bad things about the GLBT community. They must be boycotted forever to make them understand that we are important and powerful and …

OUR OPINION MATTERS MORE THAN THEIRS DOES!

In short, Convert or die!

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Not a particularly healthy attitude and I’m apparently not alone in beginning to feel that the GLBT community is being perceived as Nazi-esq.

I stumbled across this little jewel of a graphic to the right, on the internet. It came up within the first page of images. 

All I can say is DAMN! I’ll bet the Stonewall democrats and Log Cabin Republicans never saw this coming.

Then the executive at Chic-Fil-A said he didn’t agree with gay marriage AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHGGGGGGHHHHH! The GLBT community whips itself into a froth AGAIN. With boycotts and protests and all manner of idiocy.

The Chic-Fil-A executive expressed HIS opinion! He’s entitled to speak his mind.

That folks is a right protected by the first amendment of the constitution.

You know the same right that allows the GLBT community to express their opinion with protests, signs, and boycotts?

Why the hell is it wrong for a single person to say what he thinks, and yet OK for the GLBT community to disrupt (or attempt to disrupt) his business?

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More recently there was the great Vodka pouring in LA and New York because of the Russian governments oppression of gay people.

As the Russians were probably saying “Big Deal, So What?”

Much of the Vodka you morons were pouring out isn’t even made in Russia. So if you really want to make an impact don’t go to the Olympics in Russia. Don’t watch it on television but that’s about all you can do. The GLBT community is largely impotent in the affairs of the Russian government.

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Why isn’t the GLBT community boycotting OIL, after all Iran and Iraq have some of the most hideous laws against GLBT people. Oh right, our cars… well we need them don’t we?

The single most offensive hypocrisy I have every heard of is this;

Apparently a Gay bar in San Diego was the object of an intended Boycott by GAY people because the Owner of the bar happened to be Republican and expressed his dismay at President Obama’s re-election. I’m putting this perhaps more delicately than reality. The Bar Owner was flat out pissed off about it, and said so in public in the bar.

That probably wasn’t the wisest move but HE OWNS the place and therefore should be able to express himself even in a fit of anger.

What followed was insanity.

This bar owner is known for his generosity and contributions to the community. But because he’s a Republican, and not in lockstep with the predominately Democratic members of the GLBT community he was suddenly targeted for destruction.

After all if you don’t believe every word that falls from the lips of the approved GLBT roster of celebrities and politicians is pure gold you must be defective. Even if you’re asking legitimate questions for legitimate reasons.

I’ve always pictured the end of “Invasion of the body snatchers” when I think about this subject.

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It’s time for the GLBT community to grow the hell up, & start acting their age.

We’re not going to be liked by everyone, any more than black or hispanic people are. Get over it!

We can’t force people to like us with litigation (See Affirmative Action) or protests (See A Day without Mexicans) or sweet words (See President Obama).

There will always be a percentage of the population that doesn’t like either a particular minority group or several. SO WHAT? SHIT HAPPENS!

Move on with your life like an adult.

I’m an American. I’ll eat what I damn well please, drink what I damn well please, and no-one is going to stop me. I’ll smoke if I want to, I’ll fuck who I want, when I want to, and whatever gender I choose.

No, I don’t suffer from self loathing. I suffer from pride in myself and my ability to make up my OWN mind. I reject group think. I participate in those things that I’ve decided are worth my time. Silly assed boycotts simply don’t make the cut. Hearing about silly assed boycotts just pisses me off.

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If you don’t like it… shut the hell up.

Go engage in that ancient & time honored tradition the world over…

Gossip about it behind my back!

But don’t you DARE tell me to boycott someone or infringe on THEIR right to have their beliefs, opinions, or freedom of speech. 

I realize I’m asking for a lot. After all you’d have to actually read several news papers then compare and contrast the various arguments pro and con about a particular subject.

Who has time? After all you’ve got to get your hair cut, text all your friends, and be at the next party, with a whole new wardrobe.

It’s easier to be told what to think by a 30 second news report that will define how you vote, which maybe you’ll do… If there’s time on the way to the party.

Equality doesn’t mean domination. It means we live peacefully, as neighbors and don’t bother each other with our stereos.