{"id":9035,"date":"2019-08-18T05:31:33","date_gmt":"2019-08-18T12:31:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=9035"},"modified":"2021-08-26T18:38:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-27T01:38:17","slug":"was-quiet-and-blue-all-day-yesterday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2019\/08\/18\/was-quiet-and-blue-all-day-yesterday\/","title":{"rendered":"Was quiet and blue all day yesterday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"SCAN0117.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/SCAN0117.jpg\" alt=\"SCAN0117\" width=\"300\" height=\"446\" border=\"0\" \/>I realized that yesterday was the anniversary of my Dad&rsquo;s death.<\/p>\n<p>It&rsquo;s funny, it&rsquo;s been 27 years it still gets to me some years. Perhaps I&rsquo;ve just been very retrospective recently.<\/p>\n<p>I miss him.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I was so busy packing and planning how stuff would be loaded and moved I wasn&rsquo;t really thinking about why I was blue. I was chalking it up to the move itself and the feeling that I was giving up something that I didn&rsquo;t want to give up.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps it&rsquo;s a combination of the two. I didn&rsquo;t want to give Dad up, and I don&rsquo;t want to give up a space that is mine alone. Humble as that space may be, It&rsquo;s my space and I like it.<\/p>\n<p>That being said, there are times when you have to give up people you love and things that you like.<\/p>\n<p>This is a photo of my Dad, Mom, and the little guy is me. Yeah I should have been looking at the camera but hey, I was a kid. The funny thing is, In this picture my Dad&rsquo;s expression is the expression I remember most.<\/p>\n<p>This is Dad. My Father is eternal in my memory he&rsquo;s forever this age and even when he was in his 50s he looked pretty much the same. Yeah, a few more wrinkles but he&rsquo;s the same man.<\/p>\n<p>I can only hope I age as well.<\/p>\n<p>So Dad, you&rsquo;re remembered, missed, and regardless of any disagreements we had, you&rsquo;re loved always and forever.<\/p>\n<p>Now I have to get on with the final packing and get this move out of the way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I realized that yesterday was the anniversary of my Dad&rsquo;s death. It&rsquo;s funny, it&rsquo;s been 27 years it still gets to me some years. Perhaps I&rsquo;ve just been very retrospective recently. I miss him.&nbsp; I was so busy packing and planning how stuff would be loaded and moved I wasn&rsquo;t really thinking about why I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2019\/08\/18\/was-quiet-and-blue-all-day-yesterday\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Was quiet and blue all day yesterday&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,27],"tags":[175],"class_list":["post-9035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adult","category-family","tag-male"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9035","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9035"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9035\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9036,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9035\/revisions\/9036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9035"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9035"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9035"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}