{"id":8366,"date":"2017-05-24T16:22:17","date_gmt":"2017-05-24T23:22:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=8366"},"modified":"2024-05-10T22:26:52","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T05:26:52","slug":"ive-never-handled-no-win-situations-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2017\/05\/24\/ive-never-handled-no-win-situations-well\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;ve never handled no-win situations well"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"auto\">But I&#8217;m nonetheless sitting here feeling pretty proud of myself about the current no-win situation I find myself in.<\/p>\n<p>I recently got reassigned to a new boss. I&#8217;d heard rumor and innuendo about him. But I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. I&#8217;m glad I did, but he proved himself to be exactly what the rumors said he was.<\/p>\n<p>No real surprise there.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/img_0372.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"480\" height=\"199\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/img_0372.jpg\" title=\"\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-8368\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/img_0372.jpg 800w, https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/img_0372-150x62.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/img_0372-300x125.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a>He doesn&#8217;t like me much, again no big deal. I can work for someone dutifully and still wish to see them disembowelled slowly with one of those inquisition torture thingys. I wouldn&#8217;t actively cause someone like that harm, unless they messed with me first. But as long as we managed to have mutual respect for each other things would be fine.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">However, once that line is crossed&#8230; all bets are off.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Well, the new boss has been working very hard at crossing that line.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Thus far I&#8217;ve been pretty mellow.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">The other day he hauled me into an office and told me that my work wasn&#8217;t up to par. I thought, &#8220;<i>OK, perhaps that&#8217;s true<\/i>,&#8221; I also thought &#8220;<i>Of course, had you bothered to tell me what your expectations were then perhaps we&#8217;d be further along here<\/i>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Anyway, he blathered on and on, I sort of tuned him out&#8230; Until he said something about a <i>personal improvement plan. <\/i>&nbsp;In the corporate world such plans are shorthand for <i style=\"font-weight: bold;\">You&#8217;re SCREWED bucko.<\/i><\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Now, he had my complete attention.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">What he was talking about is that I&#8217;ve been doing my job. But he&#8217;s of the philosophy that I should be answer only one question per phone call then moving on to the next phone call. I was of the impression that we were supposed to actually <i style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Help.<\/i><\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Apparently, I was incorrect.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">As I listened to the remainder of his blathering, deep inside me there was a stirring. My rage monster shifted and started to wake up. &#8220;Uh Oh,&#8221; I thought. &#8220;Gotta stop that from happening.&#8221; &nbsp;To maintain my calm I thought about the fact that less than 24 hours earlier I&#8217;d signed a lease on the apartment.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">&#8220;<i>That&#8217;s gonna cost a pretty penny to break,<\/i>&#8221; I realized. I also thought about the fact that twenty four hours earlier, and I&#8217;d simply have stood up and said, &#8220;FUCK YOU With broken glass&#8221; then left the building. I&#8217;d have given notice at my apartment and allowed my rage to burn itself out loading a U-Haul and returned to the mountains and my <i><b>home,<\/b><\/i>&nbsp;calmed down and turned the job search into a full time job.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">I found out today, that a similar event happened on Monday. Another person was in a similar situation, like me, he thought he was doing a good job, helping people. But the management was displeased that he wasn&#8217;t blowing our clients off and making them call back multiple times in a day for the same problem.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">In his case, he told the management, &#8221; This meeting is over.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">He got up over their objections and threats, then gathered his stuff and walked out.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">Oh if <b>only<\/b> I hadn&#8217;t signed that lease, it would have made one hell of a statement to have two people walk out at the same time for the same reasons.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">The impending Exodus might be amusing to watch while I&#8217;m waiting for my ship to come in.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">I&#8217;m smart enough to play the game, I&#8217;m enough of a chameleon to pull it off, and I&#8217;m amoral enough to not feel guilty about being disingenuous.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"auto\">I can do this&#8230; For a while longer.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>But I&#8217;m nonetheless sitting here feeling pretty proud of myself about the current no-win situation I find myself in. I recently got reassigned to a new boss. I&#8217;d heard rumor and innuendo about him. But I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. I&#8217;m glad I did, but he proved himself to be &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2017\/05\/24\/ive-never-handled-no-win-situations-well\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I&#8217;ve never handled no-win situations well&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,88],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8366","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","category-working"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8366","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8366"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8366\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8371,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8366\/revisions\/8371"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8366"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8366"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8366"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}