{"id":7967,"date":"2016-04-04T09:59:25","date_gmt":"2016-04-04T16:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=7967"},"modified":"2021-01-08T19:40:56","modified_gmt":"2021-01-09T03:40:56","slug":"ok-im-getting-into-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2016\/04\/04\/ok-im-getting-into-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Ok I&#8217;m getting into it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is nothing funnier than the look people give you when they say &ldquo;Contact me on Facebook&rdquo; and you tell them you don&rsquo;t have a Facebook account.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"Social Media.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/Social-Media.jpg\" alt=\"Social Media\" width=\"299\" height=\"177\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Or a LinkedIn account, Or Instagram, or Pinterest, or, or, or&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The inevitable reply is &ldquo;But you&rsquo;re in Technology.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>My response is &ldquo;<em>Yes, I am but I don&rsquo;t have to engage in a bunch of time sucks, responding to friend requests, posting comments, liking what someone else said, or anything else. People who really know me can text or call but I have no desire to deal with people I don&rsquo;t actually know in real life<\/em>.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, I&rsquo;m old school.<\/p>\n<p>I&rsquo;ve got a smart phone and I like it, but I don&rsquo;t want to be so into the unreality of the internet that I miss the reality around me, so I don&rsquo;t have or want any of those &ldquo;<em>Services<\/em>&rdquo; that suck up my day offering little to nothing in return. I sure as hell don&rsquo;t want to be so engrossed in my damn phone that I walk into a fountain, door, or a wall.<\/p>\n<p>I read twitter sometimes, but don&rsquo;t have a bunch of tweets. I browse the newsfeeds but am trying not to dwell on the crap that is going on around the world. I can&rsquo;t do crap about it, and engaging in online discussions or &ldquo;<em>Causes<\/em>&rdquo; is rather pointless. I&rsquo;ll admit that sometimes I&rsquo;ll comment on a hashtag. #worstdateever or something similar is fun and good for a laugh. But none of this is an addiction anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I&rsquo;m over it, I&rsquo;m trying to focus my attention on my life and what&rsquo;s actually in front of me.<\/p>\n<p>I have a new chapter opening in my life and I&rsquo;ve wasted too many days and too much time to keep wasting it with something that is the height of unreality.<\/p>\n<p>Ya want to meet me? Ya want to have a drink, or dinner?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Call me, or text me.<\/p>\n<p>I really do prefer, actually being in someone else&rsquo;s presence. I find a real person is much more fulfilling than some &ldquo;ghost from the net&rdquo; sitting behind their phone of computer screen 10,000 miles away from me.<\/p>\n<p>It may not be the right choice for you, but I think it&rsquo;s going to work just fine for me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is nothing funnier than the look people give you when they say &ldquo;Contact me on Facebook&rdquo; and you tell them you don&rsquo;t have a Facebook account. Or a LinkedIn account, Or Instagram, or Pinterest, or, or, or&#8230; The inevitable reply is &ldquo;But you&rsquo;re in Technology.&rdquo; My response is &ldquo;Yes, I am but I don&rsquo;t &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2016\/04\/04\/ok-im-getting-into-it\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Ok I&#8217;m getting into it&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7967","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","category-musings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7967","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7967"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7967\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7969,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7967\/revisions\/7969"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}