{"id":6341,"date":"2015-08-23T09:23:04","date_gmt":"2015-08-23T16:23:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=6341"},"modified":"2021-08-26T18:38:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-27T01:38:56","slug":"after-a-while-the-insanity-gets-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2015\/08\/23\/after-a-while-the-insanity-gets-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"After a while the insanity gets to me"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"CisforCisgender\"<\/p>\n

The Urban Dictionary defines Cisgender;<\/p>\n

\u201can adjective for someone whose gender corresponds to their assigned sex.” \u00a0As in “I am perfectly comfortable identifying as the gender my parents put on my birth certificate. I am cisgender.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Okay, I\u2019m good with that until other definitions of the word pop up and appear to have different meanings.<\/p>\n

So is this a term that simply exists to allow transgendered, or transexuals a word to insult, demean, or shame, all the rest of us? Why the hell should I even have to think about this?<\/p>\n

I must have missed the memo stating that I was either supposed to become a really ugly woman, or I was supposed to live my life apologizing for being normal.<\/p>\n

\u2026Or white, Or male, or American, or from the South, or, or, or or\u2026<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m confused as hell as to why we have to create special terms that mean the same things as terms that are already extant and well understood.<\/p>\n

However, since we\u2019re about creating new terms, I\u2019ve decided to add mine to the melee.<\/p>\n

\u201cCockNormal<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n

The condition of being male in gender and thinking, happy and proud of being male, pleased that one\u2019s genitalia consists of a cock and balls, a shameless man-spreader. Of, or defining a man independent of the gender chosen with which to share their dick.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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This burbled to the top of my brain because a friend sent me an article describing gay folks<\/a> who are calling for a boycott of the new movie \u201cStonewall\u201d.<\/p>\n

What got me was this<\/p>\n

\u201cThe petition argues that white cisgender gay man Danny (Jeremy Irvine) is presented as the hero while other transgender and ethnic minority cast members appear secondary, despite being a crucial part of Stonewall’s history.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

What the hell is a gisgender gay white man<\/em>?<\/p>\n

Okay, yes I know what it is. But do we need to apply such a specific label?<\/p>\n

How about \u201cGay white guy\u201d How about \u201cPissed off Gay Dude\u201d<\/p>\n

Does anyone except transgendered people give a flying fuck about the guys gender identity?<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s a thought, YOUR gender confusion or angst is not MY problem. Furthermore I don\u2019t need to have your terminology forced down my throat.<\/p>\n

I miss the \u201cgood old days,\u201d you know, when folks who had sex with their own gender were queer and everyone else wasn\u2019t. (It should be noted, I don\u2019t miss the days when people who had sex with their own gender were in asylums being subjected to \u201ctreatments\u201d that would have given Josef Mengele the \u2018willies\u2019.)<\/em><\/p>\n

Nowdays, I feel like I need a computer just to keep the terms straight\u2026 Can I use that term like that, or is that use demonizing someone?<\/p>\n

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The Urban Dictionary defines Cisgender; \u201can adjective for someone whose gender corresponds to their assigned sex.” \u00a0As in “I am perfectly comfortable identifying as the gender my parents put on my birth certificate. I am cisgender.\u201d Okay, I\u2019m good with that until other definitions of the word pop up and appear to have different meanings. … <\/p>\n

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