{"id":3570,"date":"2013-08-13T13:12:35","date_gmt":"2013-08-13T20:12:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=3570"},"modified":"2021-01-08T19:36:28","modified_gmt":"2021-01-09T03:36:28","slug":"racist-but-who-deserves-that-label","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2013\/08\/13\/racist-but-who-deserves-that-label\/","title":{"rendered":"RACIST! (But who deserves that label?)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been mulling this one over for a long time. This is going to piss some people off.<\/p>\n<p>I ask that you consider this as it was intended more as a thought experiment written from the perspective of a white person who wants to do the right thing but who&#8217;s painted into a corner by the over use of the word Racist.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"NewImage.png\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/NewImage2.png\" alt=\"NewImage\" width=\"480\" height=\"335\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can shut down any conversation in this country by calling one or more of the involved parties<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking about it since the whole Travon Martin case.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s deeper than just Travon, more widespread and much more ugly.<\/p>\n<p>Travon was not the angelic child wearing the white hoodie. He was a 17 year old male.<\/p>\n<p>Think about this, Travon was less than a year away from the age where he would be considered an adult by the courts, and could vote.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Had George Zimmerman &amp; Travon Martin gotten in a fight just a few months later, would we have seen the outcry we&#8217;ve seen?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>Why was George Zimmerman who identifies as <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em>Hispanic made out to be White in the media?<\/em><\/span> Could it be that it was a <strong>better sell<\/strong> to have White on Black violence than Hispanic on Black violence?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>Why didn&#8217;t someone stop the media? I remember seeing one of the guests on a talking head program ask that question and he was shouted down.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"NewImage.png\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/NewImage3.png\" alt=\"NewImage\" width=\"455\" height=\"600\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>Why is it that asking a question like &#8220;What incentive do people waiting to come into this country have to stay in line, &nbsp;if we offer amnesty to those people already here and others who bypass the rule of law?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>Why do we need an ID to write a check but not to vote? When laws are enacted to prevent voter fraud by requiring an ID at the polls, it&#8217;s&#8230; You guessed it<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>The tragedy of Travon Martin is that his was a young life wasted.<\/p>\n<p>Worse is that his name may be inexorably tied to a divisive racist philosophy that has been sold to the American people by certain individuals who <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">profit<\/span><\/strong> from divisive rhetoric.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>The full facts of the Travon Martin case may never be known. What is known is that a jury of women acquitted George Zimmerman of all charges as they were called upon to do by the law.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not racist to follow the law.<\/p>\n<p>If the law is wrong then change it.<\/p>\n<p>It is by definition racist to call for harm to another group based on ethnicity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Oddly, we&#8217;ve seen folks who, (due to their history) had the most reason to prevent such calls for violence, instigating exactly the kind of mob violence they themselves have suffered.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of being a light and an example certain leaders have chosen vengeance.<\/p>\n<p>Racism knows no color or ethnicity. It&#8217;s as simple as being able to define anyone as &#8220;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Not US<\/strong><\/span>&#8220;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Anyone can engage in racism and no skin color is more or less prone to racist behavior. Yeah, no one gets a pass in my book.<\/p>\n<p>But because racist is tossed around so loosely and used as a means to shut down opposing viewpoints it&#8217;s losing it&#8217;s meaning and it&#8217;s impact.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p>Now days it seems that just because I&#8217;m white, I must be a racist.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s just as bad as seeing a black man and assuming he&#8217;s going to rob you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Racist<\/strong>!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"NewImage.png\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/NewImage4.png\" alt=\"NewImage\" width=\"231\" height=\"218\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Well, Virginia&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I was raised in the South in the 60s and had a good deal of racism around me.<\/p>\n<p>The first word I learned for a black person was the &#8220;N&#8221; word.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, it was said as casually as &#8220;go get the broom&#8221;. It was often synonymous with &#8220;go get the broom&#8221; because the cleaning people were exclusively black.<\/p>\n<p>For example: &#8220;Awww crap theres dirt all over the floor. Son, got get the N-word to clean it up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My Mother however saw the inherent wrongness of racism, &nbsp;she taught me there was a better way, a way of equality and that we could live side by side being decent to each other.<\/p>\n<p>Her belief in a better world that we could make real in a generation was very strong albeit perhaps idealistic.<\/p>\n<p>Nonetheless she gifted me with a desire to see a world where color was irrelevant and people were measured and acknowledged for their deeds.<\/p>\n<p>That philosophy allowed me to approach the smartest kid in my chemistry class for tutoring because I was having trouble getting it.<\/p>\n<p>Albert was a black guy and he helped me pass that class. I wouldn&#8217;t have asked him for help if I didn&#8217;t believe that color was a poor measure of intelligence. Alberts deeds, his test scores and participation in class demonstrated he knew his stuff and I needed a lot of help. Thankfully, he was a kind and generous person otherwise, I&#8217;d have flunked that class.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Albert&#8230; Where ever you are, Thank you for proving that humans are much more than skin color and intelligence knows no bounds.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I have recognized racism in the workplace and stood against it. Meeting commitments is not something that changes because an HR person finds out an employee is black. &nbsp;Promotions should be based on merit not quotas or fallacious racist beliefs.<\/p>\n<p>For the large majority of my life I&#8217;ve worked very hard not to allow racism in my life, thoughts, or in fact to interact with racists.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In the past decade, I&#8217;ve been called a racist more often than not, simply for asking a question.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been treated badly at the hands of people of color, and time &amp; again told I was evil, unfair, privileged, and the source of all the problems of the world.<\/p>\n<p>There was a saying once&#8230; Racists are made, not born.<\/p>\n<p>Well folks&#8230; If no matter what I do, I&#8217;m going to be labeled a racist&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>I MIGHT AS WELL OWN IT!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>With &#8220;Owning&#8221; it comes freedom.<\/p>\n<p>I no longer labor under the burden of white guilt, I honestly don&#8217;t care what you think anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve decided based on the color of my skin that I&#8217;m a racist, so be it.&nbsp;You&#8217;ve added another person to the ranks of people you claim are your enemies. Congratulations!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: right;\" title=\"NewImage.png\" src=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/NewImage1.png\" alt=\"NewImage\" width=\"272\" height=\"185\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Where do we go from here?<\/p>\n<p>Burning neighborhoods?<\/p>\n<p>Gunfights?<\/p>\n<p>Drive By shootings?<\/p>\n<p>Molotov Cocktails?<\/p>\n<p>Do we let the hate fully blossom and start killing each like the Hatfields &amp; McCoys, or like the Calvary and Lakota until one of our groups is dead and the other so decimated that they may never recover?<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">It&#8217;s been done&#8230;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We can read about it in history books.<\/p>\n<p>You can ask permission to speak with an elder of a Native American tribe, They can tell you a story of blood, tears, and hatred&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Where do we go from here?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Choose!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been mulling this one over for a long time. 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