{"id":270,"date":"2011-10-08T09:30:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-08T16:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=270"},"modified":"2021-01-08T19:31:37","modified_gmt":"2021-01-09T03:31:37","slug":"guess-im-getting-a-tad-old","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2011\/10\/08\/guess-im-getting-a-tad-old\/","title":{"rendered":"Guess I&#8217;m getting a tad old"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">My brother took an extended lay-over on his way to Mexico.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">It was good seeing him and as always I count myself lucky to have someone like him in my life.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I picked him up from the airport on Wednesday in the rain.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">The only crappy thing was a guy who was 1) an asshole 2) obviously having a bad day. I was making the approach to the terminal doing about 10 miles an hour and looking at the terminal curbside for a place to park.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Yeah I was a bit distracted and in the rain my visibility was reduced. Not meant as excuses just statement of facts.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I was, as I said driving pretty slowly (Actually the posted speed limit for once!) I&#8217;d looked ahead of me saw nothing and then out of the corner of my eye I see movement. Fuck! I think. Where did he come from? This guy was in the crosswalk and I&#8217;d have sworn that there hadn&#8217;t been anybody in that crosswalk just a second before. I must have missed him, before I can apologize&#8230; He&#8217;s hitting the side of my car with his bag.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Ya know, I made a mistake. But that is no reason to fucking damage the car.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I&#8217;ve never understood that attitude.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Yes, pedestrians have the right of way in California. But pedestrians can see something as large as a car far more easily than a driver in a car can see them. I&#8217;ve been on the other side. I&#8217;ve had close calls in crosswalks. On a bright sunny day when I make eye contact with a driver there is no excuse, on a foggy, rainy day or at twilight, you know it&#8217;s easy for me to stop and chalk it up to the driver not seeing me.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">But I wouldn&#8217;t hit someones car, especially on rain slicked roads where if the driver panics and slams on their brakes there is a potential for the car to fishtale, spin, or slide dangerously.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">All I can say is, dude&#8230; I hope you weren&#8217;t going to New York. That attitude of yours will get you hit by a car or get your knees broken by someone with a worse attitude than yours and a lot of pride in their car.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I&#8217;ve often thought that California should change it&#8217;s pedestrian laws to be consistent with the rest of the country.   <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Since we have so many foreign drivers and transplants from other states. You really can&#8217;t count on  anyone to stop anymore. I guess the only advantage is that if you&#8217;re hit in a crosswalk the law and insurance is on your side, that would probably be true anyway. Of course that&#8217;s predicated on the person that hit you actually stopping. All too often now the driver splits.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">On the next circuit around the airport I see my Brother at the curb. It was perfect timing. I pop the trunk, he drops his bag in and we&#8217;re on the way out to the freeway.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">We had a great visit.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">He&#8217;s so much like me in many ways and at the same time he&#8217;s very different. I enjoy spending time with him.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">He pointed out that it&#8217;s my turn to come visit him and he&#8217;s right. I&#8217;ve never been to Minnesota, of course I question if this is the time of year to be visiting Minnesota the fall has got to be pretty on the other hand I can&#8217;t afford to get snowed in.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">My brother was here for a day and a half.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-6sh_bW7A5c0\/TpB7a436-II\/AAAAAAAAA8Q\/PHSCLz9mk-s\/s1600\/DSC_1334.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"212\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-6sh_bW7A5c0\/TpB7a436-II\/AAAAAAAAA8Q\/PHSCLz9mk-s\/s320\/DSC_1334.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">The day we spent together was fun we took the day slow and checked out the Air Museum in Chino. I&#8217;d never been there and I&#8217;ll definitely go back. They&#8217;ve got a nice operation there.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I was impressed that my brother knew the model of dang near every plane in the collection on sight.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">It was also surprising to me how the physical sizes of the planes was not what I expected. I&#8217;ve been around Cessnas, and private business jets but had only seen pictures of a lot of the planes in this collection.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-DSMzJTp_R2I\/TpB7RE3BrKI\/AAAAAAAAA8M\/rKF7cyho-tY\/s1600\/DSC_1330.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"212\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-DSMzJTp_R2I\/TpB7RE3BrKI\/AAAAAAAAA8M\/rKF7cyho-tY\/s320\/DSC_1330.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Most of the pictures I&#8217;m familiar with give no sense of scale.<\/p>\n<p>The WWII fighters were larger than I expected and that some bombers were smaller than I expected. There was a V1 Buzz Bomb on display. It was surprisingly small. At first I thought it was a mockup but it wasn&#8217;t, it had been lovingly restored just like all the other Aircraft in the collection.<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-edJipZPd5ug\/TpB7kEC_dBI\/AAAAAAAAA8U\/6F7E1FAmRYY\/s1600\/DSC_1331.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"212\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/-edJipZPd5ug\/TpB7kEC_dBI\/AAAAAAAAA8U\/6F7E1FAmRYY\/s320\/DSC_1331.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">\n<p>Unfortunately, we didn&#8217;t have a lot of time but it was worth the visit even with a limited time. We got there later than we intended&#8230; My fault! Got a little lost, in part because the GPS in the car had no idea the street the museum is on existed. My phone on the other hand took us right to the front door&#8230; I paid $200 for a software update in the car, why????  <\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">After we left the Museum we went to a winery. He&#8217;d never done wine tasting and even though we were a bit rushed there we had some fun.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">The wine tasting started a night of drinking.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">My Brother will tell you that I was the instigator&#8230; Not true!<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">We started at the Wrightwood Inn, one of my preferred places to sit and have a drink.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Then we went to The Yodeler and had a couple of burgers. I&#8217;d had enough JD that I decided to have coke with my meal. He had a big bottle of Arrogant Bastard Ale. Then we went back to the Inn and had a few more drinks.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">The thing I like about drinking in town is that I can walk home if I have too much. Thankfully, that wasn&#8217;t necessary.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">5AM comes quick the morning after&#8230;<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">He had a 10AM flight out of LAX. add a two hour drive from here to get him to the airport. Since he&#8217;s on an international flight they recommend that the traveler arrive at the airport 2 hours prior to departure which means that he needed to be at LAX by about 8AM. We left the house slightly after 6AM. My Bro was trashed&#8230;.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I&#8217;m not sure if he was hung over but he was definitely hurting&#8230;  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Hey, what are big brothers supposed to do? Isn&#8217;t this a normal thing? Aren&#8217;t you supposed to put your brother on a plane to Mexico with a strong desire to yak all over the place?<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">He slept off &amp; on while I dealt with traffic, and was feeling better by the time we actually got to the airport.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Now I have to figure out how I&#8217;m going to mess him up when I put him on the plane for home in a month.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I didn&#8217;t want to let him know that I was hurting too. I did alright getting to and from the airport, but when I got home I crashed. It felt like I&#8217;d been hit by a truck.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I&#8217;m doing better this morning, but I have no desire to do anything except maybe go for a bicycle ride.  <\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">Even that is questionable&#8230;<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\">I guess I&#8217;m getting too old for long nights of hard drinking.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0in;\"><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-ymfbdfWc9R0\/TpB7ylFgJUI\/AAAAAAAAA8Y\/LvpOZsdSUeA\/s1600\/DSC_1335.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"212\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/-ymfbdfWc9R0\/TpB7ylFgJUI\/AAAAAAAAA8Y\/LvpOZsdSUeA\/s320\/DSC_1335.jpg\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">I&#8217;m not quite as antique as this plane.&nbsp;<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My brother took an extended lay-over on his way to Mexico. It was good seeing him and as always I count myself lucky to have someone like him in my life. I picked him up from the airport on Wednesday in the rain. The only crappy thing was a guy who was 1) an asshole &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2011\/10\/08\/guess-im-getting-a-tad-old\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Guess I&#8217;m getting a tad old&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-humor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=270"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7197,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/270\/revisions\/7197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}