{"id":12635,"date":"2023-04-29T10:46:05","date_gmt":"2023-04-29T17:46:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=12635"},"modified":"2023-04-29T10:55:28","modified_gmt":"2023-04-29T17:55:28","slug":"i-think-its-only-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2023\/04\/29\/i-think-its-only-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I think it\u2019s only me\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I keep catching articles or snippets of news, and thinking that I\u2019m losing what\u2019s left of my mind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s weird and making me think I\u2019m losing my mind is that, apparently nobody else thinks anything is amiss. Meanwhile my head is exploding and all I can think to do is run screaming into the wilderness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There was a shooting in Louisville KY at a bank. An NPR report says, it appears that the shooting started in a conference room.  There\u2019s a lot of the other usual \u201cguns bad\u201d rhetoric and there there\u2019s the obligatory doctors comment. In other words, the report was really \u201cBoilerplate\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What caught my attention was that the reporter speaks of psychological issues and how perhaps red flag laws are necessary everywhere. Then the reporter introduces the Doctor to make comments as an Osteopathic physician. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s when my brain said, \u201cWAIT Just A DANG MINUTE!!!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What the hell?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My first thought based on the word Osteopathic was, \u201cA bone specialist\u201d. My second thought was, \u201cWhy is a bone specialist commenting on a clearly psychological issue?\u201d My next thought was, \u201cClearly I\u2019ve misremembered the definition, I should look it up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For context, here\u2019s the way stuff like this is stored in my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For clarity, I\u2019ll use a common word.  We know that <em>osteoporosis<\/em> is degeneration of the bones often attributed to aging. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Osteo<\/strong> &#8211; Greek for bone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Porosis<\/strong> &#8211; <strong>&nbsp;<\/strong>a condition (as of a bone) characterized by&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/porosity#medicalDictionary\">porosity<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So <em>osteoporosis<\/em> literally means porous bones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The word <strong>Pathic<\/strong> &#8211; perceiving, suffering, or affected in a (specified) way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(<em>As an aside this one is odd because there was one dictionary that said this word was either  a homosexual bottom, or a catamite. These are not the definitions I was taught and means that I must carefully evaluate context if I see this word in the \u201cwild\u201d so to speak.<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore you would expect for an Osteopath to study bones and the conditions or diseases that affect them.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OR I suppose you could use the odd dictionary (<em>American Heritage<\/em> online, by the way) and you\u2019d come up with someone who has sex with bones????<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that\u2019s not weird enough\u2026 Hang on, because this is where things get really weird.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/osteopathic.org\/what-is-osteopathic-medicine\/\">American Osteopathic Association<\/a> website says something a bit different when defining what a Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine is.  The definition isn\u2019t simple, it\u2019s actually kind of a word salad and takes a whole lot more linguistic  processing power to process than it should. A word that is a <em><strong>Title<\/strong><\/em> should be very clear in my opinion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is the answer to <a href=\"https:\/\/findado.osteopathic.org\/faq\/what-is-a-do\">What is a DO?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Short answer, these guys probably started out as Chiropractors and \/ or Massage Therapists. Both of which, have their place but neither of which I want doing a psychological assessment on me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In either case, if the Osteopathic Doctor actually studied and was licensed to treat diseases of bones, OR if they\u2019re Chiropractors &amp; Massage Therapists,  they\u2019re not qualified to speak on issues of psychology. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally, I like the clarity of Cardiologist, Psychologist, Ophthalmologist, Endocrinologist, etc. See the pattern? You\u2019re looking at compound words. The Ologist says study of, and the word preceding it, says what\u2019s being studied. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sorry it took such a long way to get around to the point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem is that when you have some knowledge of what words mean, or worse yet, that so many of our common words have roots in ancient languages and their root meanings, prefixes, and suffixes, are rattling around in your head, it\u2019s maddening.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re at all like me, you find your brain being rebooted all the time because you take the word apart and know what something is. Or at least what it\u2019s supposed to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Except  <strong>NOW<\/strong> the word may, or may not, mean what you thought it did regardless of the common root word, or even the long accepted definition. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which is why I keep thinking I\u2019m losing my mind.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have a fairly decent vocabulary, so when I\u2019m listening to, or reading something, I\u2019m getting meaning transferred to me by the specific words being used, and apply a certain level of precision based on the definitions stored in my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When those words suddenly lead me off into the weeds, off the rails, or down the rabbit hole, because contextually they don\u2019t appear to have the meaning stored in my brain I start to ask questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of those questions is; \u201cDid I just have a stroke?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then I realize that in the case of the NPR piece, they wanted the gravitas of a \u201cmedical professional\u201d making comments. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best they could come up with was a Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Either the reporter didn\u2019t know what that meant or didn\u2019t care, and assumed that the majority of the American public wouldn\u2019t know or care that the \u201cDoctor\u201d speaking was completely outside their lane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of my very best friends is a real \u201cDoctor\u201d. He legitimately holds a Phd.  while he is very intelligent, and can speak eloquently on 18th century English Literature, I wouldn\u2019t want him performing heart surgery on me or anyone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, my friend could as legitimately spoken about the shooter in Louisville as the Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine on NPR. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With my friend, at least you wouldn\u2019t  have to process through a word salad that Kamala Harris couldn\u2019t get through, to find out he\u2019s not really qualified to speak on matters of Psychology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem is that when words don\u2019t have precise meaning then the point, or message those words were trying to convey is muddy at best. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I suppose what caused me to write this insane rabbit hole is that I frequently wonder why it is that I don\u2019t understand what people are saying. I hear or read the words but the meaning is unclear. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Right now, on my desk is a form that says, \u201cIn addition to completing form XXX-YYY, please also supply the following documents if the following box is checked.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okay, none of the boxes are checked. So I shouldn\u2019t have to supply those documents.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Except that\u2019s not the case. It turns out they do want one of the documents, and according to the person I spoke with, they always want that particular document. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The organization could save themselves a lot of phone calls and unnecessary mail by simply being clear. Either always check the box next to that document, OR reword the instructions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I spoke with the representative after submitting the form, and the organization bouncing it back twice, they treated me like a moron because I\u2019d followed their instructions precisely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I first started noticing this lack of clarity many years ago. I thought it was the world that was the problem. It was little things at first and I was convinced I was right\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now I question my rightness because the rest of the world seems to be getting along just fine with blurry meaning, poorly written instructions, and misleading reports about the news of the day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the rest of the world sees no problem, then the problem must be mine alone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wonder, should I see a psychologist, psychiatrist, or would an osteopathic doctor due just as well. I\u2019ve been described by some as bone headed\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I keep catching articles or snippets of news, and thinking that I\u2019m losing what\u2019s left of my mind. What\u2019s weird and making me think I\u2019m losing my mind is that, apparently nobody else thinks anything is amiss. 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