{"id":10804,"date":"2021-06-18T09:47:04","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T16:47:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/?p=10804"},"modified":"2022-10-17T10:39:13","modified_gmt":"2022-10-17T17:39:13","slug":"not-sure-if-this-is-better-or-worse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bone-in-the-throat.com\/Blog\/2021\/06\/18\/not-sure-if-this-is-better-or-worse\/","title":{"rendered":"Not Sure if this is better&#8230; or worse."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;ve been noticing over the last few months more and more &#8220;Cookie Notifications&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hell, even I post a cookie notification on this site. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t collect or indeed look at the metrics provided by these cookies but the blog application collects them. I don&#8217;t monetize the readership of this blog, I&#8217;ve thought about it, but decided against it . <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While I could use the money, ultimately it&#8217;s more important to be able to speak my mind without worrying about someone having leverage to force me to take down or apologize for a post.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> I posted the cookie notification because you, the reader, have the right to know that information is being collected about you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That being said, I&#8217;ve noticed while reviewing the various cookie policies of sites that I visit, a shocking amount of information is being collected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The most egregious site thus far, is a site of an adult nature that I&#8217;ve enjoyed for many years. This adult site posted their cookie policy sometime in the past few weeks, (<em>Hey, I enjoy the site, but don&#8217;t live on it.<\/em>) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Reviewing their policy presented me with over 100 &#8220;Affiliate&#8221; companies all of whom set tracking cookies, share information about my interests, have access to my location as listed on site, and pretty much anything and everything I&#8217;ve provided about me. Given the nature of the site, the immense sharing of information is troubling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the one hand, they&#8217;ve probably always been sharing this information, such is the nature of monetization. On the other hand knowing what they&#8217;re sharing, and the breathtaking length of companies they&#8217;re sharing information with, gives me considerable pause. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Any reasonable adult knows (<em>or should know<\/em>) that sites of an &#8220;Adult&#8221; nature are risky by nature, these sites are &#8220;The Wild West&#8221; and often beyond the reach, or notice of law enforcement. These sites come &amp; go without warning. If you&#8217;re a &#8220;Free&#8221; user they&#8217;re going to sell some of your information. After all, they&#8217;re in it to make money. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a reasonable adult, we each must make a value choice. Do we really want to see what&#8217;s on the site versus how much we&#8217;re willing to &#8220;pay&#8221; to see it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That thought leads me to question if these sites will make the next logical move. A move where paid membership affords you privacy from tracking and monetization. If the site is making money from memberships do they need to also share the member&#8217;s data?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;d actually pay a membership fee, if I knew that I&#8217;d be excluded from having my peculiarities broadcast to hundreds of unknown advertising agencies attempting to target me with their wares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Essentially, if you&#8217;re using a paid VPN service that&#8217;s what you&#8217;re doing when you&#8217;re surfing the web but not logged into Bing, Google, Yahoo, or whatever. Most of the people I know, use a &#8220;Burner&#8221; email address for questionable sites. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wonder about all the information that&#8217;s already out there on us all as individuals. The genie is pretty much out of the bottle. Will I forever be followed by an ad showing &#8216;Fat bottomed Blow Up Slut doll&#8217; because once in 2000 while operating my computer intoxicated,  I thought it was interesting to click on that particular genre of ad?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This line of thought has also led me to wonder about my overall membership, free or otherwise on the small number of sites that I frequent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Much as I&#8217;ve enjoyed the site I visited last night, do I really need to visit it, or any sites? I really appreciate their upfront attitude and transparency. For me that is a definite check in the &#8220;Plus&#8221; column. But as someone who tries to keep a low internet profile, (this blog not withstanding,) how much do I want to share?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Brietbart is an interesting case study in persistence. Almost every time I go to their site I&#8217;m being asked to accept tracking and cookies. Every single time I tell them they&#8217;re not allowed to sell my information and confirm that choice. But they keep asking, I suspect they&#8217;re hoping that one day I&#8217;ll just cave in and say &#8220;Accept All&#8221;. That is somewhat ironic because they&#8217;re always &#8216;banging on&#8217; about freedom and privacy. Them constantly asking the way they do is also degrading the user experience and I find myself less inclined to visit their site at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Generally, the same is true, for me,  of all websites.  I&#8217;ve noticed that when I&#8217;m confronted with yet another &#8220;Cookie \/ Privacy notice&#8221; I&#8217;m more prone to not click beyond the notice, instead I&#8217;ll close the page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe that&#8217;s a good thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If people get tired of answering questions about cookies and tracking, perhaps they&#8217;ll stop relying on the internet for all their information&#8230; I doubt it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can say that since I&#8217;ve put the cookie notice up on this site, the traffic through the site has decreased. That data is gleaned not from cookies, but from a count of incoming ip addresses the site maintains over a 24 hour period.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From my perspective, the usability of the internet is degraded. It&#8217;s like getting gas at some gas stations or making a purchase with my debit card. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s reasonable to be asked if I want a car wash, to donate to this or that cause, do I want a receipt, or be shouted at with advertisements from a blaring screen, or whatever&#8230; I just want to get on with my day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The internet is becoming another case of answer 50 questions get the simplest things done. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that regard&#8230; I&#8217;m leaning more to closing accounts I don&#8217;t absolutely need and moving back to good old fashioned printed books and reference manuals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve been using cash for purchases a lot more lately.  It&#8217;s really nice, transactions the way they&#8217;re supposed to be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some would say that&#8217;s a sign of paranoia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, it&#8217;s about not wanting to be bothered. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>When I was much younger, I worked at Radio Shack. 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